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Posted in Uncategorized | August 27th, 2011

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Needing advice and/or resources on caring for older children?

My 2 nephews (ages 9 and 7) are living with us because their Mom is dealing with health problems. I have a 7yr old and a 4yr old of my own and I have already established common rules and routines in my house; like bedtimes, balanced meals, video game limits, etc.
My nephews are NOT used to this kind of household and they are having a hard time adjusting. The 9 year old refuses to eat and says he hates this house and everything in it. The 7 yr old has some developmental delays, along with Oppositional Defiant Disorder and ADHD. He throws fits when he doesn’t get what he wants.
I try to give the kids a well-rounded life as far as discipline & fun goes. But I’m running thin on patience and I’m wondering if there are some online tips & suggestions to deal with these situations.
Thanks!

It’s not personal. Remind yourself that. They’re in a house that’s not theirs. Their mom is sick. They’re scared. If they didn’t act out I’d be surprised.

Personally, I’d go out of my way to provide firm, gentle, consistent rules and house. Without getting upset or frustrated when they get upset. Remember that it’s their lives that are being turned upside down, too. At least you can see the bigger picture – they can’t. When things get stressful, try and remove yourself from the situation and take a couple deep breaths. And remind yourself that these are children. They aren’t used to your rules and routine – it’s new to them.

And maybe have 1 night a week – Friday, maybe – where the rules are a little more relaxed. Bedtime is a little more relaxed. Order in pizza. Watch a movie together that the kids pick.